{"id":978,"date":"2011-11-06T07:08:31","date_gmt":"2011-11-05T21:08:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/?p=978"},"modified":"2017-11-05T08:03:45","modified_gmt":"2017-11-05T08:03:45","slug":"the-good-samaritans","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/countries\/asia\/bhutan\/978","title":{"rendered":"The Good Samaritans"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img src=\"http:\/\/www.wnd.com\/images\/elderlycrossing1.jpg\" title=\"sign in London, sourced from wnd.com\" class=\"g2image_float_right\" width=\"150\" \/>I didn&#8217;t see what befell the old man, but he&#8217;s being helped off the highway crossing by two others as I walk around the corner.  He doesn&#8217;t appear to know his helpers and doesn&#8217;t acknowledge either.  As soon as he reaches the curb, he grabs hold of a railing and tries to support himself.<\/p>\n<p>I try to work out what has happened before I offer help.  Is the man hurt or in shock or just slow?  Was one of the men who helped him off the road a friend?  Did the two of them have the situation under control and would they resent interference.  Two men and a woman in business suit approach from behind me and offer their help.  There&#8217;s a hospital just across the road &#8211; I wonder if that&#8217;s where he came from &#8211; would he like them to take him there?  It seems to me that the old man really wants to be left alone with a chance to redeem his pride, and he has enough assistance so I go on my way, but with a smile.<\/p>\n<p>Too often I write about how life in Australia frustrates me.  We&#8217;re usually too focused on ourselves and I miss the culture of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/9881900255?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=onepeomancul-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957&#038;creativeASIN=9881900255\" title=\"my experiences\" target=\"_blank\">Bhutan<\/a>, where people always have time for one another.  I might prefer the passersby to be more aware of the situation before stepping in, but I&#8217;m glad to see my countrymen looking out for others.  And perhaps I should do something myself.  Am I wrong not to step in and offer help?  Am I wrong not to ask the others to give the old man some space?<\/p>\n<p>After word: While looking for images for this post, I found an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.chinasmack.com\/2009\/stories\/bystanders-only-help-after-old-man-says-he-fell-by-himself.html\" title=\"bystanders only help after old man says he fell by himself\" target=\"_blank\">article from China<\/a> saying that people now don&#8217;t offer help to others out of fear they&#8217;ll be blamed for whatever happened in the first place.  With the growing practice of suing in Western society, I wonder how long it will be before we go that way too.  I&#8217;m even more happy now to see my countrymen are Good Samaritans.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t see what befell the old man, but he&#8217;s being helped off the highway crossing by two others as I walk around the corner. He doesn&#8217;t appear to know his helpers and doesn&#8217;t acknowledge either. As soon as he reaches the curb, he grabs hold of a railing and tries to support himself. I&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/countries\/asia\/bhutan\/978\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">The Good Samaritans<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4,1,30],"tags":[46,56,106],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/978"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=978"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/978\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1022,"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/978\/revisions\/1022"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=978"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=978"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/murraygunn.id.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=978"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}